After looking about comparing the tests that I competed myself and how my best friend and mother scored me, I found that we all scored right around the same. What this tells me is that I am the same person no matter what the situation. Yes, I do talk differently do different people but I am a good communicator in most situations. The did rate me as being high in verbal aggressions as I rate myself high and it has pointed out that this is something that I really need to work on in my personal life.
I think the one think that surprised me the most is that my mom did not put me in the high verbal aggression category but in a group just below. I think this surprised me because through all my years of living I have probably fought with her more than anyone else (those teenage years). I would think that she would have scored me higher. I was also shocked that my best friend said I had a little communication anxiety, she knows that I like to talk to everyone, but maybe it's because I don't talk to everyone as much as she talks to everyone!
I have definitely learned this week that I need to take the time to listen to others and what they are saying. I need to express what I believe in more calmly instead of getting so worked up and only hearing what I am saying and not what the other person is trying to say. I think this was a good lesson for me and really taught me a lot about myself and how I handle different situations.
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