I was blessed to grow up in a single family home, where my parents were married and happy and I had 1 younger bother. I had all 4 of my grandparents whom were also married and happy. I also during my childhood years had 3 5 of my Great-Grandparents. My family was also filled with many cousins, aunts and uncles. I was born and raised in Indianapolis, Indiana, where most of my family still resides today.
I have been so grateful to have so many supportive people in my life. These are only 5 of them. These people have influenced my life as a child. They nurtured me, cared about me and made me feel special. They have made a tremendous influence and impact on my present life as well.
Janna Downer
My mother, Janna Downer, is one person who had a huge role in my childhood. She is a hardworking, dedicated mother, who was always there for my brother and I growing up. She would always make sure that I had everything I needed and got to do and participate in things that were important to me. She always made me feel like I was indestructible and was the greatest example of what kind of a mother I wanted to be. To this day when I parent my son I find myself doing and saying things exactly like my mother would have. I hope that he grows up to look up to me just as much as I look up to her.
Bryan Downer
My father, Bryan Downer, was one of the most nurturing people in my life growing up. He was the one that set the rules and boundaries. He was also the first one to congratulate me on my accomplishments. My dad always wanted me to be an independent person and make choices on my own even if they weren’t the right ones, I would learn from them. I am hoping that I will one day find a father figure for my son that was just like my dad was with me. Someone for him to look up to and learn from.
Dawn Downer
My Aunt, Dawn Downer, played a great role in my childhood. I was the first born in my generation so I was the spoiled one. She would always take me to do fun things and try new things. When my parents weren’t able to take me somewhere or to a school function, she was always the first one there. I hope that when I become an Aunt I will be just like she was. I will be like a second mother to them and encourage them and help them in their journeys just like my aunt did for me.
Judy Stephens
My maternal grandmother, Judy Stephens, was one of the funniest people I knew growing up. She was also, and still is, one of the best cooks! My grandma was always at everything that she could be there for, grandparent’s day, concerts, recitals and award programs. She would always take me with her to the grocery store and let me help her cook. She was such a kind sole and always got my family together even if there wasn’t really reason. When I become a grandmother my hope is that I can be like the glue that she was for our family. Always making sure that everyone is together and never drifting apart.
Dotti Downer
My paternal grandmother, Dotti Downer, was probably my greatest supporter and still is to this day. She was the first person to arrive at any function I was having. She was always the loudest person cheering at any game. She was the one yelling at bad calls and things she didn’t agree with. But, she was always the one that sat beside my bed when I would spend the night and tell me bedtime stories until I fell asleep. When I have grandkids I want to be that big of a supporter for them. I want them to know that no matter when they are so important to me and I will do anything for them.